In sexual experiences, I primarily seek to experience or express deep love or connection with my partner.

I want to explore some power dynamics, such as dominance and submission, in my sexual experiences.

I am turned on by my own ability to create pleasure for my partner.

I am turned on by engaging all my senses – sights, sounds, smells, tastes, touches – in sex.

I look for a spiritual or transcendent experience through sex.

I am excited by indulging in taboo or forbidden aspects during sex.

I prioritize having new and interesting experiences in sex.

I am turned on by deep, soulful, emotional intimacy or the feeling of merging into one with my partner.

I am turned on by cinematic acts of romance or spending hours on cute activities building up to sex.

I crave the physical closeness, skin contact, or cuddling during sex, often more than the sex itself.

I prefer gentle, romantic sex with a slow and comfortable warmup filled with sensuality.

In power dynamics, which role do you gravitate toward most?

In power dynamics, I want to lead the dynamic.

In power dynamics, I want to be led in the dynamic.

In power dynamics, I enjoy both leading and being led.

I do not typically gravitate to power dynamics in sex.

I am turned on by play-fighting, chasing, teasing, wrestling.

I love playfully challenging my partner's authority to be put in my place.

I want to experience pain at the hands of my partner, being handled roughly, slapping, choking.

I crave surrendering my power to a partner who's earned it.

I want to serve the one with power over me, using my dominance to please my partner.

I love receiving sensual rough play like light choking and spanking.

I love receiving pampering and spoiling with my body the center of attention.

I'm turned on when being degraded like a slut by my partner.

I'm turned on when praised as good and guided by my partner in sex acts.

I enjoy inflicting pain and degrading my partner.

I want raw, aggressive, animalistic sex that isn't cruel but isn't tender.

I enjoy guiding the sex and playing caretaker for my partner.

I am primarily turned on by my ability to please my partner -- I want to see, hear, feel their pleasure.

I enjoy learning and mastering specific skills to create pleasure.

I am turned on by feeling watched and admired by my partner (or others) during sex.

The right mood or vibe, like scents and music, is essential to turn me on.

I like being animalistic and messy in sex, following instinct.

I am turned on by gentle teasing touches that give goosebumps.

I need to anticipate and yearn for sex with teasing and withholding.

I seek a spiritual experience in sex to connect to something greater.

Sex for me is about transcendence and spiritual connection.

I enjoy incorporating spiritual practices into my sexual experiences.

The freedom to pursue my desires and break free is as pleasing as the pleasure itself.

I am turned on by what's forbidden or bad for me, I often like pushing boundaries.

I find pleasure in leading someone else to indulge in their dark side.

I love sex that will make an incredible story with spontaneity or exciting locations.

Novelty and experimentation with new acts, toys, or contexts turn me on.

Stepping into fantastical stories with roleplay, costumes, and characters excites me.

I am turned on by enthusiasm, laughter, and joy in sex.